tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33106572308050513622024-03-23T12:22:02.988-04:00True Amish StoriesIntrigued with the Amish? Facts are stranger than fiction! From my experiences as a "mom to ex-Amish" and life with former-Swartzentruber family and friends, I give honest and accurate information. BrendaBrenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.comBlogger126125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-74142613633122932442017-04-27T17:00:00.000-04:002017-05-12T00:42:48.399-04:00The Good, Bad, and UglyI've been relaxed on writing for a while - surgery, a new grandson, a daughter's wedding. Life.<br>
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But that doesn't mean I've "sat out" on learning about the Amish and those who leave nor on helping ex-Amish who come across my path.<br>
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Thin, quiet Jacob is the newest "fence jumper" who landed in my life. He asked me to teach him to drive . . . using my car. Husband refuses to ride along when ex-Amish learn that a vehicle is stronger and faster than a buggy. So Jacob and I drove alone through parking lots, back roads, practiced parking, and reviewed road rules.<br>
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Anyhow, in<i> The Vendor</i> this month is a <span style="color: red;"><b>Spicy Tomato Jam</b> </span>recipe my husband tried. It used some of our tomato overload. If you're in the same boat - or are curious what Amish, others, and farmers might do - give this a try:<br>
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Earlier this month an Ohio library invited me to speak and to sell and sign my book.<br>
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After I arrived and set up my book table, hung the Amish clothes, and booted up my power point, the librarian introduced me. The mixed audience leaned forward and eagerly listened while I showed authentic Amish clothes and shared my story. I detailed my experiences with the "fence jumpers" and about my book, <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Buggies-Bonnets-stories-former/dp/194173328X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=&sr=brendanixon-20" target="_blank"><b>Beyond Buggies and Bonnets: Seven true stories of former Amish</b></a>.<br>
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From the back of the room, a man shot up his hand. After I acknowledged him, he asked, "Why aren't there as many women as guys who leave and stay out?"<br>
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Religions around the world shun those who leave the faith, the "infidels," the "wayward" ones. I've known parents who shun a child for a behavior or decision against them.<br>
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But since there's tremendous curiosity - and misunderstanding - about Amish shunning - which is not practiced in all orders - here are a few stories from those who've <b>personally experienced</b> it since <b>leaving the Amish world</b> behind:<br>
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<b>Esther shared</b>:<br>
<i style="color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 16.08px;">Here's my story.... We left 13 years ago and are still being shunned by our families. I went through a grieving period for them. At this point in time they talk to us, but don't eat with us or drive with us or do business with us. Some of our family are more like a distant relative than close family. Our kids don't know most of their cousins and my parents have no relationship with our kids.</i><br>
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Some of these statements may be easy to you, some a challenge.<br>
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<b><span style="color: red;">1) The Amish Culture is 600-years-old:</span></b><br>
True<br>
False<br>
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<b><span style="color: red;">2) Amish share similar beliefs and behaviors</span></b>:<br>
True<br>
False<br>
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<span style="color: red;"><b>3) Amish and Mennonites are nearly the same in behavior</b></span>:<br>
True<br>
False<br>
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<span style="color: red;"><b>4) Mennonites came out of the Amish:</b></span><br>
True<br>
False<br>
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<span style="color: red;"><b>5) Only married Amish men grow beards and mustaches</b></span>:<br>
True<br>
False<br>
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<span style="color: red;"><b>6) Amish send their children to school only through the 8th grade:</b></span><br>
True<br>
False<br>
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Let's see how you did. Here are the answers:<br>
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How could I turn down an opportunity to share discoveries about the Amish with the world? Janet's producer set up the connection and she and I chatted comfortably for an hour - I from my home - the marvels of technology!<b> "Wow, I never knew that," she frequently exclaimed throughout the interview</b>.<br>
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ex-Amish, Former Amish, New English, Fence Jumpers.<br>
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Even "they" use these names! So in light of that - plus it being an election year - I had to share this . . .<br>
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One popular myth is that <i><b>Amish don't vote</b></i> - truth is,<br>
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for reading my blog posts and to those who leave comments! Speaking of . . . here's one I received recently,<br>
<pre style="background-color: white;">I just wanted to say that I have really enjoyed reading your blog and have
learned a lot from your stories. Thank you for opening my eyes to how
diverse Amish culture actually is.</pre><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/03/is-rumspringa-worry-to-amish-parents.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-57639776085595630082016-02-29T10:45:00.000-05:002017-05-12T01:33:54.932-04:00Her World In and Out of the Amish<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today, I share Saloma's Story. She grew up Amish and left as a young married adult. The former Amish who I've had most experiences with are teens or those in their early twenties. Saloma, however, left after marriage and children. Here's her touching story . . .</div>
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif; font-size: 12.0pt; line-height: 107%;"> <b>"</b>Hi, my name
is Saloma and I'm the oldest child in my family. I have two brothers and two
sisters. I was born in 1977 into a very conservative <b>Old Order Amish</b>
family in Fredonia, PA.</span><br>
</div><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/02/her-world-in-and-out-of-amish.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-54692574732935123282016-02-12T13:15:00.000-05:002017-05-12T01:39:25.530-04:00The Hidden World of Amish Gangs<div class="MsoNormal">
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<span style="line-height: 107%;">In most cases Amish gangs are teen cliques with mutual interests. </span><span style="line-height: 17.12px;">Some of the gangs are wilder than others, and some gangs pretty much hold to the Amish ways.</span><span style="line-height: 17.12px;"> </span><br>
</div><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/02/the-hidden-world-of-amish-gangs.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-34007752380326619262016-02-01T08:17:00.000-05:002017-05-12T01:42:28.832-04:00What Happened to My Life as AmishJesey has had an exciting, tumultuous journey unlike any other person I know. Here's her story in her own words . . .<br>
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<b>"</b><span style="font-size: large;">D</span>o I ever regret my experience? No. </div>
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Does it sometimes feel like it was a surreal dream and other
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I am the oldest of 10 in a Catholic family from upstate NY.
When I was about 11 we started the <b>journey to becoming Amish</b>. We met a newlywed
Old Order Amish couple (Dan and Ruth) on a train as we were heading back to NY
for the family holidays. Dad was intrigued. He struck up a conversation with the couple and the
rest is history.<br>
</div><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/02/what-happened-to-my-life-as-amish.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-9306447174826271412016-01-21T11:08:00.001-05:002020-09-30T07:55:18.638-04:00Curiosities, Confessions, and FREE e-book<div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;">
Whether it's a speaking venue, media interview, or booksigning, I'm frequently asked these common questions.</div>
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<b style="line-height: 150%;"><span style="font-size: large;">Where do you live? Are you married? Do you have a family?</span></b></div>
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husband and I have raised two daughters but, along through the years, God has asked me to
temporarily “parent” other children. </i><br>
</div><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/01/curiosities-confessions-and-free-e-book.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com15tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-91010464438682940802016-01-12T13:40:00.000-05:002016-01-13T05:52:04.643-05:00Speaking the first half of 2016<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i>IT'S FUN, UNEXPECTED and WELCOMED. . .</i><br>
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I'm asked to write guest blogs, sign my book, and answer questions in media interviews.<br>
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<a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2016/01/speaking-first-half-of-2016.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-15253193987453965352015-12-23T13:38:00.000-05:002015-12-23T13:38:00.353-05:00Suspendergate = Amish Rules on Suspender Use <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkABHHvtT4E1F96w01qERBOkKA4SCkVDKl8XiLnnKbwEeHDTasBB8hSWfKKGzhjvavFcTPdiAN5qF5cIPOOpIpEb8n7YNoKFbSrNbmW3KVt8iiygBV5kgUMYF1fTLzelAh_NzZyz1Y0-c/s1600/Suspender+Use+2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="144" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjkABHHvtT4E1F96w01qERBOkKA4SCkVDKl8XiLnnKbwEeHDTasBB8hSWfKKGzhjvavFcTPdiAN5qF5cIPOOpIpEb8n7YNoKFbSrNbmW3KVt8iiygBV5kgUMYF1fTLzelAh_NzZyz1Y0-c/s200/Suspender+Use+2.jpg" width="200"></a><span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">Amazing! Did you know about Suspendergate?</span><br>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">There are different <b>rules</b> on suspender-use among the Amish, just as there are rules on hats, shoes, and ladies' bonnets.</span><br>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">This post provides you some insight into the varied and complex Amish world. </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">One cannot say, "All Amish" do this or that. </span><br>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #141823; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; line-height: 19.3199996948242px;">My learning curve about the culture and its confines began in 2009 when the "Ex-Men" [a group of former Swartzentrubers] graced my life. Then Mosie, our first "adopted" ex-Amish son moved into our home.</span><br>
<a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/12/suspendergate-amish-rules-on-suspender.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-20695147357286741832015-12-04T13:28:00.000-05:002015-12-29T08:10:27.090-05:00Unbelievable Update on Marvin - Chapter 7 of my bookHe left his PA Old Order Amish settlement. Then he went back. Left again.<br>
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVXGPHR3Q2URxMgrtU7EyNTUxF1xOikEzXG7DY6Aj7KtdqGjb9VJzH7OTcVsnlxTRH_VrKPq6o7Pzl-YqqJPDouPMBNUbiYBBGa85Pqc8eni1pWx33eCoj-CDrF_IEJ1aSfVekA3cXUz8/s1600/418545_202864843146749_750419484_n.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgVXGPHR3Q2URxMgrtU7EyNTUxF1xOikEzXG7DY6Aj7KtdqGjb9VJzH7OTcVsnlxTRH_VrKPq6o7Pzl-YqqJPDouPMBNUbiYBBGa85Pqc8eni1pWx33eCoj-CDrF_IEJ1aSfVekA3cXUz8/s320/418545_202864843146749_750419484_n.jpg" width="320"></a>The second time he left his Amish life, the ex-Amish guy who picked him up in a car and brought him to Ohio, stopped in our home and introduced us to Marvin. At 18-years-young, he looked so naive. He'd left behind his Amish appearance -- English clothes, clean-shaven, short hair.<br>
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I wrote in detail about our relationship with Marvin, his near-death car accident and making me his medical POA during the delicate body repair surgery.<br>
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What's he doing since my book came out?<br>
<a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/12/unbelievable-update-on-marvin-chapter-7.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-44186862655733094492015-11-25T13:24:00.000-05:002015-11-25T13:24:00.100-05:00Update on ex-Amish Verna - Chapter 6 of my book<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<b>Chapter 6 </b>of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00Y0ZUZPG" target="_blank"><b>Beyond Buggies and Bonnets: Seven true stories of former Amish</b></a> describes an Old Order Amish girl. Her upbringing and family life was NOT what you'd read in any Amish fiction book.<br>
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But it was her truth.<br>
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Verna grew up in Ohio - home to the largest number of Amish settlements nationwide. She left the Amish at a young age, later met and married Dave. He also had left the Amish. They began building a life together.<br>
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Most of <b>chapter 6</b> takes place in Dave and Verna's home, where she nurtured her first child. What's the exciting news since the book release?<br>
<a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/11/update-on-ex-amish-verna-chapter-6-of.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-21846673334501536902015-11-17T13:23:00.000-05:002015-11-17T13:23:00.105-05:00Monroe - Chapter 5 of my book - Update<div class="" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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She chose to leave her Swartzenuber Order late one Thursday night.<br>
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<span style="text-align: center;">No transportation, job, or birth certificate.</span></blockquote>
No education beyond 8th grade.<br>
Little cash.<br>
A small sack of English clothes.<br>
Hopes of finding a home for the night.</div>
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We became that home.</blockquote>
I wrote about picking her up at WalMart, how I helped Sarah launch her new life in our "forbidden" world, and her first steps on the journey in being ex-Amish. Sarah is<b> Chapter 4</b> of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Buggies-Bonnets-stories-former/dp/194173328X" target="_blank">Beyond Buggies and Bonnets</a>.<br>
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<b>As a Swartzentruber female she was forbidden from shaving any body hair - remember that part in my book?</b> She needed teeth. Her order avoids licensed dentists. A settlement dentist puls a tooth with a cavity rather than repair. The white kapp represents submission, and in her settlement, signified she was an unmarried - but of marriageable age - female. <br>
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And since the publication of Beyond Buggies and Bonnets, . . . here's an amazing update<b>:</b><br>
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He's come a long way from his Swartzentruber Amish days, where Jonas was the settlement's buggy repairman. <br><br>And since writing my <b><i><a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Buggies-Bonnets-stories-former/dp/194173328X" target="_blank">Beyond Buggies and Bonnets</a></i></b> book, ex-Amish Jonas (now known as Josh) has experienced several more changes! He...<br>
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<li>moved out of his apartment</li>
<li>married Sarah (<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Buggies-Bonnets-stories-former/dp/194173328X" target="_blank">she's Chapter 4</a>)</li>
<li>started a new business</li>
<li>learned to run Power Point at his church and</li>
<li>plans to move to Colorado this month!</li>
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We "adopted" Josh as our nephew because he's the cousin of our son-in-law Harvey. And I'm thankful we keep in touch. He's shown great independence, maturity, and spiritual growth. </div>
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He's also retained his quick wit and sense of humor. Remember, that part of Chapter 3 where he bought the BB gun at an auction?<br>
</div><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/10/update-on-josh-chapter-3-of-my-book.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-87741743328644055052015-10-17T12:29:00.000-04:002015-10-17T12:29:00.591-04:00Why do Amish leave? Ex-Amish answers<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In my last post I answered a common question, "Why do Amish leave?"<br>
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As promised then, here are answers culled from "the horses' mouth" - the ex-Amish themselves. Some may surprise you.<br>
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may be because of the non-stop rules
to conform . . . or be shunned by the community. For me it was because
of a disagreement about doctrine. I was asked to take a hike, but not all
were in agreement about that, I found out later.</i></span></li></ul><a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/10/why-do-amish-leave-ex-amish-answers.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-24136280479628885442015-10-09T11:32:00.000-04:002015-10-09T11:32:00.219-04:00Why Do Amish Leave? My answer<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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"Why do some Amish leave?" is a question I'm asked when on speaking engagements.<o:p></o:p></div>
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While time doesn't permit a detailed answer, this is the condensed version I give:</div>
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<a href="https://brendanixononamish.blogspot.com/2015/10/why-do-amish-leave-my-answer.html#more">Keep Reading »</a>Brenda Nixon, Author and Speakerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11052093071339488784noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3310657230805051362.post-23632143872923453682015-09-24T09:00:00.000-04:002015-09-24T09:00:02.896-04:00Update on ex-Amish Harvey<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTBzVITNn84CwGGck36pIsBSNurCYgbent1ibZAMBqOWKJ3MkUI4n0NLkRDCYVGzrvRESChPMeu9dPXIvy1TISGXaPXJsEcWkXPOdx5lx18e5GdI0sL3hhP13Tqqro1-iBbZ2hd9bIcog/s1600/bearded+Harvey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em; text-align: center;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgTBzVITNn84CwGGck36pIsBSNurCYgbent1ibZAMBqOWKJ3MkUI4n0NLkRDCYVGzrvRESChPMeu9dPXIvy1TISGXaPXJsEcWkXPOdx5lx18e5GdI0sL3hhP13Tqqro1-iBbZ2hd9bIcog/s200/bearded+Harvey.jpg" width="135"></a>He's <b>chapter 2 </b>of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Buggies-Bonnets-stories-former/dp/194173328X/ref=tmm_pap_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&sr=1-1&qid=1432581817" target="_blank">Beyond Buggies and Bonnets: Seven true stories of former Amish</a>. And he's my son-in love!<br>
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Since the publication of the book, readers want to know how and what Harvey is doing. He's been "out" of the uber strict Swartzentruber Order of Amish for six years now.<br>
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He can be stoic and serious (Amish breeding). And he has a terrific sense of humor. Here he is as a Duck Dynasty character!<br>
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Well, here's his life changing update!<br>
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She wanted to learn about the young men who leave the Amish. Since it's common for Amish women to do the cooking and home care she asked, "<i><b>H<span style="background-color: white;">ow hard is it for these young </span><span style="background-color: white;">men that leave learn how to cook?"</span></b></i><br>
<span style="background-color: white;"><b><i><br></i></b>The answer varies among particular families - but those I've met from the Swartzentruber order knew nearly nothing about food preparation to sustain their appetites.</span><br>
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This post might be your fave.<br>
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Have you always thought Amish buggies are <b>black</b>? Here's a surprise!<br>
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The Old School - also called Nebraska Amish - have <i style="font-weight: bold;">white-topped </i>buggies! Any exterior lights or reflectors are considered vain "ornaments." I'd think a white-topped buggy would be easier to see on the road at night. Interestingly, this is one of the few orders that prohibit women from wearing a bonnet!<br>
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Nebraska Amish were named for Yost B. Yoder, an Amish bishop from Nebraska, who helped start this group.<br>
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